just 2 little interesting anecdotes from me.
my most recent fling, in fact my ex in iceland me me on my 2nd day here and apparently started dropping hints from the word go (which being male i missed altogether.) she definitely dd catch my eye at the time so seeing her frequently was just a bonus for me. we went out one night and got very drunk and when we got home (by this stage we were both crashing on a mutual friend´s couch) after an hour of trying to lick each other´s noses she literally dragged me into the bedroom. i´m told and have seen on enough occasions (and been at the receiving end once...) that the icelandic mentality is pretty equal so girls frequently make the 1st move here.
back in au i was introduced to a girl by a mutual friend as having problems with her car (i know enough of how they work...) and she clearly took an interest in me (the mutual friend´s actual intention i found out later) and was definitely dropping hints but also acting strange. i think if she had made a move i would have turned her down and my instinct proved me right: she tired of the games, found some other guy and within 3 months they were married! eek!
personal opinion is it really doesn´t matter and i see no difference between who makes the 1st move. it will all work out in the end 
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mother nature made the aeroplane, and the submarine sandwich, with the steady hands and dead eye of a remarkable sculptor.
she shed her mountain turning training wheels, for the convenience of the moving sidewalk, that delivers the magnetic monkey children through the mouth of impossible calendar clock, into the devil's manhole cauldron.
physics of a bicycle, isn't it remarkable?
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