The way it worked for me -
I had to fully develop my personality and interests, then become comfortable with those traits before I was able to find and commit to a healthy long-term relationship.
I do not pretend it is the same for others.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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