I agree, it is odd that the news has affected you so.
People progress and change. You know this, though.
Tt and I recently chose to send an invite to a good friend of his, who happens to be an ex (5 years ago). She sent a decline to the invitation, her best wishes, and a gift. I was relieved to avoid any chance of confrontation.
I do think this is a bit different than your scenario, though. They are friends presently, and she lives across the country.
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