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I second the idea of flying Shauk out for the chat.
Sounds like you're on the right path already. You are interested in talking to your son, rather than sheltering or confusing him. You've noticed his development, you're willing to learn and help him to learn. Now seems to be the time to get comfortable talking to your son like he's a man, and by the by introducing him to the concepts of puberty and development that he'll face in the next few years.
As a total side note, I recommend teaching him how to dance. I have no idea why I'm suggesting this - just seems like a good excuse to spend non-threatening alone time with your son. Getting him comfortable chatting seems to be the key.
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