SteelofUtah

I would like to think so.

It is really hard to answer that question because at 6 partners I didn't feel the way I do today. I mean I understand you point and it is Valid. The real issue is the point where you UNDERSTAND your sexuality.

Some men are Threatened by sexually experienced women, somehow they get it in thier head that they don't add up, that somehow someone else will be better or that they have to be MIND BLOWING to make the cut.

Something you only get when you have had sex with a LOT of women is the knowledge that Sex is for enjoyment and you really don't HAVE to be the Biggest, or the Best to be the most memorable.

Some things I have learned that might help some of the guys who care about numbers.

First off I am a 27 year old white male with a very AVERAGE Penis, You will never see me in porn nor will I ever be some girls erotic fantasy. I am Overweight and I am rather goofy, so why have I been with over 200 women?

Because I TALK to them, I get to know THEM not thier tits and I have no desire when I first meet them to be the sexual activity of the year for them.

I stopped trying to be some PornStar Wanna be and realized that most women know what they want but the guy doesn't care. If you LISTEN to them before during and after sex you can become the best partner they have ever had.

Most of the girls I talk to complain about the same thing when it comes to guys.

First the Pretend to care about the girls needs
Second they do what gets them off and then leave the girl hanging
Finally they actually ask "So was that good?"

My wife was worried about the amout of women I had been with especially because I have a Latex alergy so I went and got an STD Screening for her, it didn't matter as we were having sex before it came back but still I willing to do that for her and that ment a lot to her, she SAID she was worried about the women but she was really scared for her own safety. Then she thought that she wan't going to square up to the other women.

Truth be told when it comes to the Male orgasm the woman kinda just needs to be there. As soon as she saw that I was able to get great orgasms from her more than what she was used to she was finally more conent with the amout of women I had been with.

I would like to believe that I would be okay if I had only been with 6 and she had been woth other 200 but one thing I would know.

Is that OUT OF 200 GUYS she was NOW with me.

Don't shut the door on something just because you can't deal with her past. instead look at your present.

Does she make you happy?
Do you enjoy being with her?
Do you think about her often?

Then what more do you need to start a LONG TERM LOVING Relationship?

Just my two cents in a Sea of pocket change.

Steel

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