cadre

Well, I just got out of a long relationship in which things got rough on occasion but nothing out of the ordinary. I always wanted him to go a bit farther but he was uncomfortable so I left it at that.

Since I ended that relationship I have been with a man that has fulfilled that desire for me.

Rough is awesome! He even went so far as to slap me across the face a few times and I didn't have any desire to stop him. Granted, this is a man I've known and been close with for a very long time, and I trust him immensely. Basically, I was handcuffed (ones with no safety), spanked, slapped and otherwise abused. It was very enjoyable for me and I never felt like I had lost control really. I haven't decided whether I am a true sub but I definitely did enjoy being dominated.

Starburst, everyone has already given their opinions and I have nothing to add except for my support. What you describe just does not sound right.

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