Originally Posted by jewels

You don't have closure? How do you think he felt when you kicked him to the curb without an explanation?

As Snowy and Seaver said, hurt soon turns to anger. Of course that's why he treated you that way. You treated him like shit, it's only natural he's going to lash out any way he can. That's your closure. Allow him that last "word" so that each of you can move on.