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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
When I use the word 'stupid' in this thread I am being emotional and I'm sorry. But there is a point (in frequency) at which I find the use of these phrases to be indicative of a certain ignorance. That's not to say that I think everyone who has used them at any time is stupid or ignorant. I respect you, shani, and I would never characterize directly anything you do or say as stupid. But at the same time, I find the outright rejection of my point view on this thread to be willfully stubborn. Disappointingly stubborn.
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I dont reject your point of view I just dont agree with it. Same as I dont agree with atheists or people who think its a good idea to use the three day rule when getting a girls phone number, or that the number of people a person has slept with prior to their current S/O is really that big a deal.
I've never said that you werent entitled to think about it what you want, Im just REALLY confused with the "when its ok and when its not ok" to express that someone is "doable"
You and Abaya both have stated you wouldnt "hang" with people that do that and that confuses me. Now....Im not some chick that hangs out in bars with the "hens" (actually I dont hang out in bars at all) and oogles guys (or girls) left and right. BUT neither Dave or I have a problem when we are out and about and people watching stating that a particular person has piqued our interest.
I've read and I've read and I still really dont get why thats wrong?