I totally made the first move! I'm all over making the first move. It's the only way to guarantee I get what I want.
2.6 years ago or so I was in a pub here in town waiting to see a show, and I ran into an old friend of mine who introduced me to his girlfriend, who in turn introduced me to a table full of guys. One of the guys had been in my philosophy class that spring, so we started talking, and he offered to buy me a beer. I accepted, and while he was off getting said beer, I turned to the guy sitting on my right and started talking to him. I thought he was way out of my league--so cute--but I had to try anyways. So we start talking, but before we could get anywhere with our conversation, the band had started playing. They weren't that good, so I seized on what I saw as an opportunity and asked the guy on my right if he'd like to go across the street to another bar for a drink. He accepted, and is forever grateful that out of the two of us, I felt comfortable making the first move.
I've always been that way, and most of the guys I've come in contact with have been relieved that they didn't have to ask me out.
