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Originally Posted by Milnoc
Yeah! I find it incredibly annoying that "society" STILL dictates that the man must always make the first move.
Ladies, if we're in a romantic setting and you want us, JUST TAKE US! Don't wait for us to make the first move! A lot of us are pretty shy. And it's such an incredible relief when you make it very clear what you want from us.
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Yeah! Exactly! Even the most confident seeming guys can be pretty shy, or uncomfortable. And some girls are just flat out intimidating.
I've always had to make the first move. I do like the chase, but lots of times girls just won't reciprocate escalation, and I feel I'm made more vulnerable than I should have to be...
Bleh, but the really fun part about it all is the double-jeopardy aspect... If a guy judges the situation wrongly enough, not only will she reject you, but she'll backlash in a major way with little to no prior warning. If you're expected to be the primary aggressor, it's not always easy to know when your advances are unwanted. It's not always that easy to tell when you're crossing the line.
It's like you're petting a cat, and it's purring, so you rub behind it's ears, she likes it, and everything great. And then *GNAR!* she claws you and bites you out of nowhere. WTF, Whats UP, cat?! Luckily, only some girls are like that...