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Likewise, "I'd hit it" is okay with ngdawg and shani. If I were to say it to them, it'd be a compliment hidden in a tease, and I suspect they'd take it as such. So you see it's not as simple as "it's offensive". It can be offensive, but that's way more complex and has a lot to do with the intent in saying it and the perception upon receiving it.
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Yea, but in an forum available to the public, whether written or verbal, you have no idea who is going hear or see it. You don't know everyone. My father can say "Women are such bitches.. " to my mother, and they've been married 30 years and she knows what he means by it. It doesn't mean he can go on the Internet or out in public and "jokingly" say it in earshot of another woman.