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Originally Posted by jewels
Three questions for you (or anyone else who feels this way):
1. What about the numbers makes you uncomfortable? Specifically. What's the red flag?
Basically what Martian said. I'd feel like I was just adding to her number and while it wouldn't raise any flags for me, I would simply be uncomfortable dating somebody who was that promiscuous in such a short amount of time.
2. Do you ask her how many partners she's had before you date her or when you're about to sleep with her?
No. What I don't know can't hurt me. So up until I know the number, I don't care.
3. At this point, do you know her well enough to know if she's telling you the truth?
Depends on how soon we have sex, doesn't it?
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