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Originally Posted by Starburst
I love him very much and he treats me as an equal in all other aspects of our marriage, but strongly feels my limits must be extended to keep our sex exciting. If I had conrol, he feels, I would not reach my full potential. He lavishly praises my ability to excite him and continues smoothering my body with kisses after climaxing.
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I realize I'm late to the party. However, skimming through these posts, that quote caught my eye.
That is manipulative behavior almost verging on emotional abuse how I read it anyway.
You say, "It hurts and I don't want it like this anymore."
He says, "But honey, I'm doing it because I love you and want you to grow."
So, is he doing you a favor by hurting you? That sounds like what he wants you to believe so he can get what he wants.
Then to top it off, he gives you something that you know you will like so you will question why you feel the way you do.
Just something to ponder or whatever...
As for me, I like the level of roughness. Not too much, not too little.