thespian86

Too many is when you feel uncomfortable. As long as your fine with it then proceed.

I agree Jewels but at the same time after dating my girlfriend for a month I knew it was something very special and there were still a million little things I didn't know about her.

And for the record, unless she has some sort of related health problem, previous partners is small potatoes in my books.

But if I found out she had a history of serious drug use, and I cared about her as much as I did, I think I couldn't keep from being honest with her about my feelings. This might be judgmental but I think it's just honesty. Plus, something that makes you uncomfortable, when you care about someone, continues to hinder your already great relationship.

But, dude, if you just met her, and you care about her but you can't find a way to be ok with it, then be done with it; don't drag it on, it only gets harder.

Everyone has there own deal breakers; I don't think it's our place to judge what they are.

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