Originally Posted by Ustwo

Instead of getting upset in the whole thing, embrace it. Women who understand sex and sex appeal are the powerful ones, use it to your advantage knowing mens nature instead of wishing men acted more like your girlfriends.

To quote a stripper I talked to a few years ago, 'Men are stupid.' From her perspective she was correct, the men she dealt with were stupid, and she would make over a $1000 a night for just having fun and dancing around while denying them sex.

You don't have to play a part of course, claiming you do is not true, I doubt many 'plain Janes' get objectified, so lose the make up, forget the hair style, go utilitarian, and bow out if its so bad.