No, it's been a while since I've done this, but there have been times in my life when I have imagined sex with men I see around, flashes of sexual positions and scenarios, and it is
regardless (
) of what they looked like. I guess 'cause I'm getting laid more regular now, I don't do it anymore. This would be almost like an exercise, it became habitual, but I would picture myself with men of all ages, races, cultural leanings, what have you...from the bearded homeless guy on the corner, to the fat Jewish guy at the deli, to the young WASP stud walking his dog in the park. But it's always been something going on in my head that was secret and I liked it that way. I wouldn't want to go around blabbing about it all day.
But if this is akin to what you guys are talking about, that's fine. The looking and the thinking is not what I take issue with.