I'm not denying that it DOES act as camaraderie and I'm not denying that it is usually intended in just, NOR am I denying that I, myself, have done it.
What I originally asked in the OP is how we can achieve the same ends (bonding and camaraderie) without objectifying women in an offensive way. Certainly there are ways to be jovial and funny without conversations about "hitting it."
There are plenty of ways to talk about the attractiveness of women and having sex with them without implying that you'd fuck her twelve-ways from Sunday. (NOTE: Especially on a forum where both men AND women participate).
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