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Originally Posted by Abaya
Why not challenge each other to go UP a level and talk in a respectful way about women? Because no one wants to be the "loser" who spoils everyone's fun by asking, "Would you talk about your daughter like that? Then why are you talking about other women like that?"--and risk being laughed at or accused of having a stick up one's ass?
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Absolutely spot on, Abaya. Mind if I put this in my signature?
[EDIT, saw Ustwo's post]
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Originally Posted by Ustwo
If you are an attractive female let me into the heads of the men you have met...
Female: Hi, my names Amy, whats yours?
Male 1: I'm what you have been looking for baby, oh momma, I'd hit you like the angry fist of God, you know what I mean toots?
Translation: God I'd like to fuck her.
Female: Hi, My names Amy, whats your?
Male 2: Jack, so very nice to meet you. Say haven't I seen you in Dr. Thompson's lab?
Female: Yes, he is my research mentor for my PhD in high energy physics, I'm working on the singularity project.
Male 2: Singularity project? (laughs) I hear you are going to destroy the planet.
Female: (chuckles) Yes I read that too, sometimes you wonder why the press prints that crap but then you remember what they were like in undergrad.
Male 2: I don't think I ever met a sober journalism major, anyways tell me more about your research.
Translation: God I'd like to fuck her.
One is socially inept, one is less so, both with to achieve the same result.
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I resent the implication that all men behave in such a juvenile manner. It might be hilarious to you to create a hypothetical situation like this, but this not how things happen for some men.
SURPRISE: Some men are actually capable of maintaining a conversation without having a side conversation with their penis about where they should put it. While you might think that they have the same effect, the second response has a drastically different effect in that the woman at least BELIEVES that you aren't an asshole thinking about the fastest way into their pants. So if this is really how
you think, it probably works better for you to disguise your unending lust in the guise of actual conversation. But for those of us not in an unending conquest to fuck, it's possible to have AN ACTUAL CONVERSATION ABOUT SOMETHING MEANINGFUL.
For the record, I don't actually believe that YOU think this way all the time either. I think this is a funny "anecdote" so you can fit in with the guys talking about 'hitting it.' If you actually put some thought into it, I imagine you aren't always thinking about sex when you're having a conversation with a woman who MATTERS to you.