It's a bit different, though. If I say you're hot, it's a subjective physical impression and usually a compliment. If you call me stupid, it's either an objective observation (if you were talking about someone with a low IQ) or an insult.Stupid? Do you mean ignorant to social norms? If so, then social norms aren't consistent. Presumptuous need not apply, though, as "I'd hit it" is not "I'm going to hit it".
I could understand if you said it was disrespectful, because that makes perfect sense, but sexual attraction combining a loose interpretation of what's socially acceptable doesn't seem to scream stupid or presumptuous.
Men objectify women. Women objectify men. We all have physical form, and said physical forms can be sexually pleasing to other people. I can't comprehend being offended by that. Yeah, if you weren't appreciated for your big sexy brain I could see you being frustrated with people not liking ALL of you, but MM and Abaya (and all the ladies of TFP), everyone here on TFP loves you for your big sexy brains. Many women on TFP don't even post pictures and are well respected and well liked.
The funny part is I rarely say "I'd hit that" and it's always in jest.
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