That warm and fuzzy feeling could be interpreted as an ego boost. You see someone achieve great joy from your actions, and it makes you feel real good knowing you're fully capable of accomplishing such an act. It could also identify the "giver" as a compassionate person, because they sincerely want to satisfy their partner's sexual desires before satisfying their own.
Oral sex used to be considered a "bad" thing, and was even used as justification for a divorce. Today, it's an important gauge on an individual's level of compassion and generosity.
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