abaya

I've tried that, but it's hard to get into a rhythm when we're missionary and my hand is getting moved all over the place from our movements. Also, for whatever reason, I find it less sexy when I have to stimulate myself, though sometimes (very rarely) it does work. Just takes a hell of a lot of work... and we don't have the energy or patience on weeknights.

But I agree with you, little_tippler... would be so nice to come every time, but it just doesn't seem feasible.

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