Nice work Cynthetiq.
Couple other things -
This is the best investment you can ever make: in yourself. I always thought of therapy as something that only truly affluent people can afford to do properly. What I mean is that you have to have the means and the TIME to do this. Some people have a stigma attached to people who "need" therapy. They tend to look down on those who attend therapy. Those people have very likely never taken a serious look at themselves and have little hope of ever improving their lot in life.
Even if it costs money - make yourself go to three different people at least once even if you think the first one is perfect. This is someone you are likely going to be with a long time and entrusting with a very important job. Don't skimp on one of the most important steps.
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All truth passes through three stages:
First it is ridiculed
Second, it is violently opposed and
Third, it is accepted as self-evident.
ARTHUR SCHOPENHAUER (1788-1860)
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