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					Originally Posted by abaya
					
				 Why does there have to be a ratio? |  Technically if oral sex is occurring in a monogamous relationship, there has to be a ratio by definition. Doesn't mean you have to pay any attention to it, though.
 
I've never been concerned with it. It's my opinion that sex is not a contest and is not about give and take.
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