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Posting things to friends online. If they are really your friends they won't believe what he has to say, and if they do, they'll come to you and ask if it's true. If they believe what he says and it effects your relationship with them than they really aren't your friends. People like him are the reason I hate facebook and myspace, and don't bother using those sites. Ignore him. If you have him on your facebook and myspace friend's list, take him off. Disassociate with him on every level and don't react to anything he does. You can't control if he "friends" your friends and tells them lies, you can just hope you have good enough friends to not believe him. If not, look at new friends at your college who don't know him, and honestly leave the high school BS behind. If he's making harassing phone calls, text messaging, or something you can have hard proof of, go to the local courthouse and file a restraining order. Hopefully, a restraining order will shut him up, or piss him off, and he'll flame you even more. In that case you go to the hearing for a restraining order, have it filed, and file a warrant for his arrest the very next time he calls you.
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