I've turned away many men over the years.
I've only been turned down once, right after my promiscuous wild and crazy days. My future first husband slept (literally) with me but wouldn't have sex with me until he officially broke up with a woman who was crazy about him. I married him because I thought he was the one honorable guy for not sleeping with me on the first date, but in reality it was a mere glimpse of the future - a bleak and barely existent sex life.
