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I'm in the same boat. I have never turned down an explicit offer of sex (not sure if I'd be strong enough, honestly), but I have backed out of one situation where I know that's where it was headed. I wasn't too crazy about her but probably would have done it, given a real offer...I may have self esteem problems or something.
I know in a few cases I stupidly didn't realize that some situations were headed that way and inadvertently derailed the progress toward sex. I'm a nice guy by default...
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