Wyodiver33

cmc, thanks for the reply. Thats pretty much how I feel. I guess I just needed to hear it from somebody on the "outside." I've never had a relationship problem like this before. It's very frustrating. I don't know what I'm going to do yet but things can't go on like this much longer.

Thanks everyone for the replies. It doesn't look good at all. She keeps telling me that she will work on the intimacy issues. I fear that she is going to do as little as possible. Just enough to keep me from leaving but not enough for me to ever really be happy. I'm not willing to give her an ultimatum yet because I don't want to Demand intimacy, you know? I want for her to want it too. I'm going to talk to her some more about it and I'm going to suggest therapy. I really am in love with her so I'm going to keep trying for now. But I'm afraid the end is near. She deserves to be happy and I deserve to be happy. Right now I can honestly say that I am miserable. I barely feel like I'm in a relationship. She says that I make too big a deal about sex and intimacy. To me they are very important in a relationship. This is the strangest relationship situation I have ever been in. I see her pretty much every weekend. Being so close to a woman who I love and am very attracted to but knowing I can't touch her is maddening. Some of you might think I'm being overly dramatic but keep in mind: It's been 22.5 months!

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