When I first met my wife, she was not a gamer. But after sharing stories about some of the D&D sessions I regularly played in she expressed interest in attending. At first she just observed but pretty soon she joined in and became a full-fledged D&D gamer.
Several years later and after having a daughter, we don't play D&D anymore but I recently introduced her to the wonders of WoW and she's hooked along with me.
Moral of the story is while the perfect woman may not start out as a gamer she can blossom into a raging geek with a little encouragement
