Not sure when you got divorced, but you went from being married to this woman I'd assume not to long after.
So you met this person you are really into, and she has a kid + no sex drive....
Well first maybe it is some past trauma thing, or maybe shes not into you, or just not into sex, but the fact that you can do unto her and she won't do unto you sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.
The rational thing to do is cut your losses and find someone new, don't line yourself up for two divorces. My rule of thumb is that if she doesn't like to fuck like a bunny when you are first together, you are setting yourself up for one of those 'no sex' relationships 10 years down the road.
Love is both fortunately and unfortunately not rational. You can try therapy and the like, but if shes not willing to talk about it and work on it, its not going to work out.
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