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Yes, it seems quite clear that either the lady is in need of therapeutic assistance, or she simply has no attraction to you. But in either case, this is something that requires resolution, and would seem to be in great need of communication. You need to talk with her, honestly and caringly, and let her know you love her, but this can't go on without addressing the issues. Either she needs to let you know where she's at, and, if necessary, seek professional help; or she needs to admit that she is not physically attracted to you, in which case the relationship would seem to be at a close.
This is difficult, but you must talk with her. The worst possible thing to do would be to ignore this problem and marry her. It would be unfair to all of you, the child not least.
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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