Bad news: she clearly doesn't want to be in that kind of a relationship with you and you're going to have to accept that and move on. She probably does want to be friends, but avoid trapping yourself in a friendship you hope will become something more again; you'll just torture yourself. If you want to compete with all those "other guys", then brace yourself. Personally I dislike that kind of competition. To me it sounds like she isn't worth that.
Good news: there's thousands of women out there just like her, except they lack the elements you seem fedup with. Be strong. Take some time off from her, see other people. You'd be suprised.
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