Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but the recoiling may indicate that she's not attracted to you, but is willing to put up with you. She won't please you, but will marry you? Your needs are unimportant to her. That doesn't sound like love to me.
Could she be looking for a father for her child? Someone to take care of her?
Get out and don't look back. Unless there's something you haven't said, this does not sound good for you.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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