Wyodiver33

Hi all. I have been going out with a fantastic woman for almost two years now. She has a 7 year old son. I love them both. I think the Lady could be the one for me, as in marriage. But she has no sex drive. We have fooled around a few times when she was horny, always me taking care of her. But my needs are totally unimportant to her. We have never done the deed. I don't want to pressure her but I need things in life too. I don't want to be celibate. I love this girl so much. But two years? I have tried hard to communicate how I feel towards her. She doesn't seem to care. I am extremely attracted to her. This has become torture. I don't think I am asking for too much here. I really don't want to ever break up with her but I think I deserve a normal sex life. She is not affectionate at all. But she swears that she loves me and wants to get married. I like to touch the woman I'm in love with. She recoils every time I try. To me the intimacy is a big part of a relationship. And I'm not getting it. Two years, folks. What should I do??? Write it off? Keep trying? I'm 38, she's 31. I'm far too old to waste my time. I love her with all my heart. But I have needs too. Ideas?

Thanks.

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