I didn't lose my virginity until i was 20
My beau didn't lose his until late 23
That didn't bother us at all. I have to admit, it was a shock to me because I thought he was just too good looking to be one, but all in all, it was a great learning experience because we got to learn together.
As long as you and your future deflower-er have a good communicative relationship, it will all be good
Sex is easy to come by (as suggested in your brothel comment), but intimacy and trust is something that has much more value than paid pleasure ever would (as I would assume. I have never hired a gigilo) I have considered jsut getting really drunk at a club and just finding some random guy to get rid of my virginity, but on the whole, it was/is a stupid idea and shouldn't even be considered
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