Ustwo

The insecurity would be in that the relationship was no longer 'secure' as you split up.

I'm not saying that would lead to increased sex, I'm just saying that it would be hard to intemperate with their hypothesis.

Also I think there is a natural 'getting older, old relationship' side that reduces sex drive and a more 'hes no longer attractive, I'm too busy, too stressed etc' side that can also lower that sex drive.

The problem is its very hard to separate 'normal' changes from external fixable ones.

To be clear in a 10 year marriage.

Man at 25 - Good shape, motivated.
Man at 35 - 50 lbs over weight, dead end job, lazy.

So the woman says her sex drive is lower, or is it just on hold?

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