My list:
1) Intelligent. I probably won't connect with a woman on an intellectual level unless she can keep up (or, if I'm lucky, surpass) me in conversation or debate.
2) Empathetic. One of my biggest turn ons is a woman who cares as much about people as I do. If a woman isn't effected at all by the suffering of others, she's probably not right for me.
3) Attractive. If I'm not physically attracted to you, we're staying friends. Sorry.
4) A life of her own. I've already got an established personality and life. I won't latch on to your family and your friends and your interests. I expect the same. A relationship only works with two distinct people.
5) Fucking hilarious. I love laughing and joking. It's a part of who I am.
6) Likes me, a lot. If she has a list and I fit it or she has to revise the list because I have things she likes that she forgot, awesome. I don't like women who want to "change a man". I mean if I do something stupid or wrong, I appreciate your opinion of course, but if I don't want frosted tips I won't be getting frosted tips. If I don't want to be a vegan, I won't be a vegan.
7) She won't grind my junk onto oblivion trying to work out her stress from working for Bill Lumburg all day.
See? Your list isn't bad at all.
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