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You don't want to make your girl insecure, but at the same time, you have to accept that it's natural for you to look. As others have said, be discreet about the looking, refrain from comments, and don't do more than look. That should be more than enough, and your girl ought to be able to live with that.
I am an inveterate chick-scoper, and my honeys have usually been fine with it. They know if I'm with them, it's because I love them, and that means I am faithful. My last gf summed it up best: if you're with me, I know you love me. If you check out other girls, I know that you're a dude, and that you're alive.
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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