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Originally Posted by Crompsin
I think we crave drama as much as we need stability, but we don't know how much we need stability until we've had too much drama.
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YES. I think it might be tempting to *think* we have a connection with someone else (when married or in an otherwise committed relationship), but as almost everyone else here has said... it matters what you do about it, and how you deal with those thoughts. I do think it's normal to think about other people now and then... most of us aren't robots, we're human. But it takes maturity to know the damage done by a need for drama... and some people take a long time to learn that lesson. Stability beats out drama every time, in the long run... that's my perspective.