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Originally Posted by Sharon
One of our male members (is a male member called a penis?  ) asked me to post this on his behalf: |
Sharon,
Thanks so much for taking the time to post that message from the male member. I very much appreciate his attitude on the subject and concern. I know that all men are NOT obsessed with inflicting pain on their partner during sex.
My feelings for intimacy with a woman have become extremely intense recently. My husband’s fixation with seeing me helpless and in tears has played a part in it, I am sure.
Pain in some degree has really been part of our sex life beginning with our wedding night. Just small things; he is very reluctant to use lubrication, avoids foreplay which would prepare my body to receive him, often hyper-extends my arms and legs and at times is extremely physical. The fact that he is almost a foot taller and 100 pounds heavier than I am exasperates the situation.
I am determined that our sexual relationship will change. It must become more loving and mutually satisfying without the excessive pain. I have not been able to talk with him about it yet, but neither did we have sex last night.
Please thank the male member for taking the effort to have his thoughts posted. Sharon, I very much appreciate your help and concern.