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Originally Posted by starburst
I want so bad to please him and the exhilarating feeling of totally being dominated, but have anxieties. Are my anxieties goung to destroy an otherwise very good relationship?
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This is the part that disturbs me. Sex should be about getting closer as a couple, not about making anxieties. It should also be about pleasing one another...not about one wanting to please the other with no real focus in the other direction except some kisses after the fact.
What people do in their own bedroom is their own business, but *I* personally would not be comfortable with this because it doesn't seem to be about role-playing...it seems to be about real domination. The lack of a safe word would freak me the heck out.