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Originally Posted by starburst
he would really stop, if he feels he is seriously hurting me. He refuses to use a "safe word" because allowing me to decide would remove the element of my being helpless and his controlling and dominating me.
Are my anxieties goung to destroy an otherwise very good relationship?
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Personally, I'm not comfortable with the idea of letting anyone decide when it's too much or enough for me. That's just a tad too controlling. But only you know the answer to that question for
you.
My concern is that you're anxious about it now which would seem to indicate that you already have doubts and fears. Sure, we all want our guy happy in bed. But what are you willing to risk for that?
