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If you like it, and you truly trust him, go on. If you do not, stop. Immediately.
I am lucky to have complete trust and vulnerability with my husband - we have some pretty damned hot sex. He is just as rough as I want him to be. That's the thing (something I think Shani pointed out once) - it's fun to act like he's in charge, but really, the one being dominated is the one with all the power, because it stops when we say it does.
If you don't feel like he would stop if you asked, then I would have a BIG problem with that. A BIG problem.
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My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.
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