mixedmedia

I pretty much agree with what Sharon says here. You should never be pushed past these limits. It should be desired by you as much as your husband. I can tell you in no uncertain terms that playing around with these kinds of emotionally-charged sex acts can take a toll on you mentally. Even when it's something that you do want. Even when you know you are just play-acting, the emotions can take a toll on you as if they are real.

I'd be really careful.

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