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If you're worried that having this conversation will make her think you're too serious and thinking about a relationship... then don't make it a serious conversation. You can still communicate that it was due to alcohol and that you typically have the ability to screw her senseless, but you'll need to have the confidence to make fun of yourself a bit and act like it's no big deal.
I went through a similar 'whiskey dick' situation with my current g/f a little while ago... the first time was just embarrassing and I felt awful about it, but I shrugged it off and decided that I wouldn't let it get to me b/c that's not who I really am. Luckily, I got another chance at it and everything has been great since... and now we laugh about it together.
I agree that it would be preferable to have this conversation in person, but I don't think it really matters... just as long as you're confident and get your point across without sounding too serious. Isolated incidents like this are only really a problem if you make them one.
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