What does one say after a night of bad sex?
Short version of the story; Out with this girl I am just starting to see, very casual sort of thing though I do like quite a bit. I invite her out for the evening with my buddies and I end up getting completely tanked. She ends up taking me home anyway and mid-coitus the whiskey dick sets in and so I just pretend to cum. Now, sober and more rational, I worry that she might think I prematurely ejaculate because this was the first time she took me back to her place. My plan is to basically just pretend it didn't happen, don't talk about it, and rock her world next time (if there is a next time), however I mentioned my situation to my roommate and his girlfriend and she practically insisted that I need to talk to this girl about what happened, because she might well worry that it was her fault or that she might have known I faked it and think that I don't find her attractive (which I very much do). Now, I've been away since the day after my amazing feats in alcohol consumption. I don't live near her and we only see each other every so often, but we usually chat a little bit each day on Facebook. Well, that hasn't happened as much, since I've gotten back. I'm not sure if it's related or just because we just spent several days together. Moreover, if I really have to talk about this with her then I certainly don't want to do it over the internet or by phone, but I won't be back her way for another week. I was pretty secure in my plan, that everything was fine and going to blow over but my friend's girlfriend really has me second guessing myself. Though this girl and I are not in a relationship, I do like her quite a bit, as I mentioned earlier, and it would really disappoint me if I blew it over something as stupid as not wanting to talk about a bad first time with her. On the other hand, I'm embarrassed enough with myself (I typically get excellent response to my sexual prowess and have never had any performance issues before, alcohol related or otherwise) and would really like to avoid talking about it with her. Plus I honestly think it might make it worse if she also just wants to put it behind us and move onto round two. So yeah... thoughts?
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