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Originally Posted by Crompsin
I feel that a relationship that isn't a burden at times doesn't have any gravity, any weight.
I find that I change my goals and habits to compromise with my partner in the long run.
I becomes we. I wouldn't want to build a relationship if I didn't have to carry some weight.
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I'm sorry, let me clarify that.
undue burden? maybe that's a better way of putting it. If the other individual is putting you out in some manner, then it's basically putting you off.
Life itself is a burden, people get sick, bedridden, infirmed, does that mean you bail at that point in time? Well if you find that a burden, then yes. It's cold hearted, but it's a burden on you and more than likely it's a deal breaker for some.
But there are those that actually aren't shallow self involved people who care and WANT to be seated at the foot of their loved one's bed.
make sense?
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