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If you (or anyone) likes it rough, hard, fast or painful...that's your perogative. If you are with someone that you can trust enough to let your inhibitions go...more power to you for finding that person.

One day my fiance, who was my boyfriend at the time, asked me if I would be open to him "choking" me during sex. At first, I thought that he was insane or had completley lost his mind.

But, after getting more info from him and talking about it in depth, I "gave in." The first time that we did it was over a year ago and I LOVE IT! I love feeling out of control, being controlled, thinking that my life is in his hands, etc. It's a HUGE turn on for me (and him) and makes me have orgasms like you wouldn't believe.

I've reccently found out that this is more normal than I had thought and they actually have a name for it.

Ladies, if you like something, want something or have fantasies...tell your partner and act them out and/or do them. Sex isn't just about men and what they want. It's about what BOTH parties want.

We've all had moments where our partner got us the wrong angle and it hurt and we just took it anyway, and saved the "complaining for afterwards." I would say that if this happens and you're willing to take the pain and crying again...you got enjoyment out of it to....and that's okay.

However, if you're going to get into dominating or painful situations, you need to have a code word or hand gesture that really means stop. When you pick a word, you'll want it to be something out of the ordinary so that you don't do it by accident during sex. Try the name of a fruit or flower. If you pick a had gester, try something like the hang loose or peace sign.