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Old 02-17-2008, 01:46 PM   #59 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Bees
My girl prefers anal to vaginal sex. After some foreplay and oral fun we start out with vaginal sex but as soon as she gets really hot she wants it in the ass. She tells me that women have more nerve endings around the anus than the vagina. With anal sex she has more powerful orgasms and sometimes she has two or three in a row. When we come together that way it is really blissful. She doesn't really like my come in her ass so when possible I pull out and come on her belly and pube instead.

I really love to satisfy her that way but sometimes there is a problem for me with it. Once she is done with her orgasm(s) her anus clamps shut and any further penetrations start to cause her pain. So if I haven't had my orgasm yet I am left to jerk myself off (usually with some help) but for me that is not a completely satisfying end to our lovemaking.

I would prefer to come in her vagina and then stay inside as we share a loving embrace. But I won't reenter her vagina after anal sex.

Any advice?
It's smart of you to not double-dip after anal... but I can see how frustrating that might be. Have you tried the condom-first with anal, then removing it for vaginal, as pig suggested? I don't particularly like cum in my ass, either (though I do love anal sex), so my husband usually wears a condom for that portion and that takes care of most of the clean-up.

Also, in terms of Order of Orgasms, would she let you get her off anally first, then remove your dick and use it vaginally (assuming you were wearing a condom for the first part)? For me, after I've had an orgasm, I could be fucked in all of my holes and I probably wouldn't notice... I'm just a quivering lump of flesh at that point, and I always invite my husband to do whatever he wants to me, then.
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