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Originally Posted by abaya
Well, yeah. We don't have problems on the weekends (you should have seen us when we were long-distance, when weekends were ALL we had... I think sometimes, we just didn't leave the house the whole time)... you know how it goes.
But on the weeknights, yeah... we're wiped out as it is, and sex needs effort if it's going to be worth having... but we still like to have sex often, instead of delaying it until the weekend. I just don't see how we can stretch it out into a position-twisting, oral-giving session every single time, during the week... but maybe I'm missing something.  |
Trust me, I know what you mean. And you're not alone.
I personally have been having issues with getting wet and staying wet recently and I've attributed that to stress, exhaustion, and all that fun stuff. Also my boyfriend has gotten on a lazy kick where many times he won't be into foreplay which means it's all my job to get myself ready (which is okay..sometimes but after a while it's annoying). I've just been keeping lube by the bed and hoping that eventually my explanation that I pretty much always need foreplay now will get through my boyfriend's head.
"I'm not a teenager anymore ya know?"
Anyways, during the week we definitely do not make time for long sessions most of the time and I really don't think you could every single time. My suggestion would just be to find a balance that works for you and go with that. Besides, maybe he likes the job of lubing?
