Thread: Getting wet...
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Old 02-13-2008, 06:53 AM   #45 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by raeanna74
Personally I've seen that BC makes a big difference in my normal lubrication. Without BC I have no issues but on BC I almost always need additional lube. Also I've noticed that if I'm not drinking enough water I will be drier down there.
Yeah, BC is the only medication I'm on, and we all know it's a doozy for all things sexual. I've been on it since the second month after I started having sex (and the first month was all condoms and I was rather dry, given that I was still a bit nervous and getting used to sex in general, so I don't even know what my "normal" wetness is like without BC). And I am pretty bad about daily water intake, as I mentioned earlier... I think it's one of the factors for why I don't get wet all the time.

Thing is though, some of you mention that some women just don't get wet, while others soak themselves... and the weird thing is, I'm right in between. I've always had a lot of vaginal discharge ever since puberty, all throughout the day... but when it comes to sex, it's a hit-and-miss thing. But if my man has been going down on me for a long time and I have an orgasm, then I'm definitely all wet. So it's there, but just not when I want it to be.

Also wanted to say that I agree with ng. I think ktspktsp would just appreciate if I was reaching for the lube/trying to get myself wet now and then, instead of depending on him to do all the work. I don't know why women expect men to do it all for them?... or why men seem to take it as a "pride" thing?
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